Skip to main content

Love @ Po Leung Kuk

Donate Now!

Sharing Love

信上的每一張面孔	是我們成長的推動力(Chinese Only)

信上的每一張面孔 是我們成長的推動力(Chinese Only)

自從兩年前搬家到天水圍後,祚榮和妹妹芷瑜已經很少到位於上水的保良局田家炳關愛家庭中心,但這天再次回到中心,祚榮和芷瑜仍準確記得每一位中心職員的名字。   回想起初時來到中心的回憶,祚榮媽媽仍記憶猶新,「我哋以前住上水,2018年工人姐姐辭職,我同老公返工工時好長,照顧唔到祚榮同芷瑜,經社署介紹,帶咗佢哋嚟中心接受『保寶天使』鄰里支援幼兒照顧計劃,初時係去保姆姨姨屋企由保姆照顧,但原來佢哋有好大情緒同行為問題,會打姨姨、搗亂、亂掟姨姨屋企嘅嘢。」   兩兄妹其後改為到中心由職員照顧,保良局田家炳關愛家庭中心副主任鍾穎欣姑娘表示,照顧他們極具挑戰,「哥哥好為食,見到其他小朋友有零食會好主動問人或者出手攞,比較衝動唔識同人相處;妹妹就痴人,好小事容易喊,唔識得表達。」   「唔該姑娘!」 眼前的祚榮和芷瑜十分有禮乖巧,完全想像不到他們3年前是媽媽和鍾姑娘口中所說的「熊孩子」。鍾姑娘表示,中心每一位同事按小朋友的性格特別為他們製定「成長」計劃,「我哋會耐心同祚榮、芷瑜解釋佢嘅行為有咩問題,亦都會為佢哋製定目標,完成咗先會有獎勵。我哋亦都試過連繫祚榮去訪問喺保良局V54大宅駐留嘅法國藝術家,幫佢建立自信,增廣見聞。」   媽媽亦非常感激中心同事的用心和耐性,「佢哋每日會花一個鐘頭解釋兩兄妹今日喺中心表現點,會教我返屋企點樣管教佢哋,又會安排活動畀我哋一家人一齊參與。」   祚榮一家去年搬遷天水圍,臨別的時候,兩兄妹相當不捨。喜歡畫畫的祚榮拿起畫筆,沒有畫他心愛的食物,反而畫上了中心每一位職員的樣子,媽媽看到後也十分感動,也和祚榮一樣畫上了每位職員的樣子,並親筆寫了感謝信。離開中心的那一天,芷瑜擁著鍾姑娘不放,約定搬家後也要再見面。直到現在,他們也在遵守這個約定,空閒時回中心探望各位職員。   保良局田家炳關愛家庭中心 『保寶天使』鄰里支援幼兒照顧計劃 查詢電話︰3563 5161 網址︰http://childrenyouth.poleungkuk.org.hk/tc/page.aspx?pageid=382
Professional Dancer -Ching

Professional Dancer -Ching

Yu Tin Ching (Ching) has resided in Po Leung Kuk’s dormitory (also known as “the House”) since 2 years-old. The shy little boy would only sit quietly aside in the beginning, even the in-house staff could hardly notice him. Fortunately, he got his chance to shine on stage. Whenever Ching danced, the invisible boy stole the limelight and became the “dancing king” among the children in the House.     Ching loves dancing since he was small. He originally taught himself by watching online dance tutorials. However, it is difficult to master the basic skills or make further progress through self-study. Luckily, Ching met with another dancing enthusiast, Ms. Cheung, in Primary 4. Ms. Cheung discovered the talents of Ching, she initiated him into dance trainings and practices, as well as arranged him to participate in various stage performances of the Kuk, such as the Child Sponsors’ Day, so as to build up his self-confidence gradually.     Ching dreams of becoming a professional dancer. He hopes to learn more dancing techniques from dance schools, but stepping out from the comfort zone of the House and the expensive tuition fee made him feel confused about his future. “Do you really want to be a Dancer?” Ms. Cheung reassured Ching and let him finally made up his mind.    Later with the help of Ms. Cheung and social workers, Ching received financial assistance from “Angels for Orphans” programme of Po Leung Kuk, and started learning jazz dance and street dance at professional dance schools. At the last Child’s Sponsor Day of this 18-year-old boy, Ching decided to express his gratitude to the Sponsors by delivering his best dancing performance before leaving the House.    After DSE, Ching targets to enter The Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts to further develop in dance studies and achieve his dream as a dancer, “I wish that one day, I can come back to the House as dance tutor, and contribute to the Child Sponsor’s Day.” 
特殊孩子媽媽的分享(Chinese only)

特殊孩子媽媽的分享(Chinese only)

母親背起孩子,所擔起的除了孩子重量,更有別人目光、家人想法、長輩意見、同儕壓力、自我質疑、對孩子期望,那重量有時令媽媽也忘記了自己。   特殊孩子媽媽情況更甚。   五歲的梓謙有自閉傾向,梓謙媽媽在照顧孩子時像變了另一個人。 「我會乜都鬧左先,好想佢快d跟上進度,好想佢快d肯聽從指令。」 怒氣背後,是壓力,是無助,是擔心。 「好想兒子由主流教育轉到特殊幼兒中心,呢個係對佢最好安排,長輩卻反對。喺公眾地方,因為兒子唔聽話,外人常時報以奇怪目光,最難聽係聽到人講『你個仔係咪傻架?』令我自信心好低落。」   自閉症孩子不善表達情感,因此社交能力亦較弱。在管教上,父母很想改善,卻有時適得其反,變成了壓力的源頭,關係的破口。   一年多前,梓謙開始在保良局曹金霖幼兒學習中心受訓,梓謙媽媽亦在社工及臨床心理學家的幫助下,了解如何管教特殊孩子。   中心強調建立孩子自信,鼓勵梓謙做小班長;治療師亦作出針對性介入,以梓謙喜歡的英文作切入點,開始訓練。起初梓謙在上堂時仍有打人的行為,一年多後,行為及自我管理能力亦大大改進。   至於梓謙媽媽,亦在過程中重新認識自己,掌握母子關係的真諦。   「我唔可以將別人標準掛喺自己兒子身上,以前嘅我,一心想兒子進步,卻無理會自己都應該要進步,過份要求孩子其實係無用嘅。社工同埋臨床心理學家令我了解到,我疏忽左自己做家長嘅應有態度。我好想多謝盧經理、社工馬姑娘、臨床心理學家吳生,喺我最困難嘅時候陪住我成長!」   曹金霖幼兒學習中心盧頴經理表示:「我好欣賞梓謙媽媽好努力去學習,亦都好重視同梓謙嘅關係。喺幫助特殊孩子嘅同時,我哋更加需要係陪伴家長去面對,因為一方面家長扮演好重要嘅角色,佢哋嘅積極參與、正面接納小朋友嘅態度,對改善孩子情況帶來事半功倍,另一方面,家長往往係最受壓果個,我哋必須要有專業支援。」   表達能力、情緒控制的改善,令梓謙在最新一次評估只是輕度,更令梓謙媽媽感到欣慰是,他與兒子關係的改善,「兒子常時會走來叫我一齊玩車車,又要我抱抱。」當問到有什麼說話想跟梓謙說,媽媽深呼吸了一口氣,然後說:「梓謙多謝你陪住我,我哋一齊努力,你嘅出現,令我知道媽媽有好多野都要學習,多謝你俾機會我學習做一個好媽媽!」   世上最難擔任的崗位,就是父母,然而,卻只能邊做邊學,梓謙媽媽回顧自己與孩子的改變,很想勉勵同路人:「你開心,孩子就會開心架!所以,盡量自己開心一點,放鬆一點,孩子係會俾你嘅欣賞打動架!」   淚水養大孩兒,在此向每一位媽媽,送上最真摯的祝福及感謝。